There are different reasons one can say that he or she is in a state where they blame their childhood for making them that way. Many people relive the horrors of their past years and especially their childhood when they were very young and attribute their present distress to those formative years. It is true that those first few years are actually quite important in determining the kind of person a little one turn out to be, as they are highly formative in nature. This is the time when the brain of the child develops or starts to develop and this is therefore the time when the child starts to understand what he or she is and what the world where they live in comprise of. Therefore teaching the child faulty mechanisms and giving him or her wrong knowledge is not only detrimental for the present of the child but also for the future of the child and the information repertoire that the child is building up slowly.
Kindergarten is one such stage of the development which is instrumental in understanding the basic functioning of the child. Coupled with academic lessons, the child is supposed to learn lot of self care and socially maturity lessons. This means the child understands the most important ways he should interact with others in his environment and also makes sure what the different kinds of people one can meet are. Teachers often start to teach about the major stereotypes to the child, for example doctors, and what they do, what they look like, or even a builder and what they do and what they look like. It is with these lessons that the kids starts to learn the different societal stereotypes that are correct and that forms the mind of the child based on his or her personality.
Parents therefore are very much careful regarding the different things the child learns at school and also the kind of problems he or she might encounter in this learning process. A strong commitment of the parent in order to inculcate in the child the needful, is what goes a long way. Therefore most of the parents should give a lot of attention to the child in these formative years as they are instrumental in realizing the main goals the parent has for the child. Most parents often feel that making the child go to a good institute is the most they can possibly do, but that is not the case really. The child has to be constantly looked after by the parent and that is what makes the child really learn the right things. The child continuously learns different things, and those are the reasons why they are in such a state where they are very much impressionable. Unfortunately all these learnings are not of good or appropriate nature and some might be too early for the child to know and others might even be wrong representations of the world. This is the time the parent has to pay attention.